I met this gorgeous slightly older man at a concert and decided to grab drinks the following week. At first things went OK, we played the getting-to-know-you 20 questions game. But then he brought up his recent divorce, and I spent the next 3.5 hours hearing details of EVERY thing she did wrong, how much her family didn’t like him, etc. As if that wasn’t enough, he texted me daily for a week saying what a great listener I was and how I’d make a great wife for him one day. Needless to say I never called back.

–Jessica Z., Los Angeles, CA